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Swipe Right Or Run? Men Spill The Truth About Their Hinge, Bumble and Tinder Dating Adventures

We’ve spent plenty of time dissecting the ups and downs of dating apps from the female perspective, but what about the guys? In this episode, we’re flipping the script and diving into the male experience on Hinge, Tinder Bumble, and beyond. Are they having just as tough a time navigating the world of ghosting, weird prompts, and awkward first dates? Or do they have their own set of challenges that we haven’t even considered? To add some spice, we’re reading real-life examples from The Times article on men’s dating struggles—some hilarious, some shocking, and some just plain sad.
From bizarre first-date expectations to the pressure of making the perfect opening line, we uncover what men really go through in the modern dating scene. Is it true that women hold all the power on these apps? Are men secretly as exhausted by the swiping game as women are? And what’s the deal with those guys who refuse to plan a date but still expect a spark? Get ready for a brutally honest, slightly cringey, and totally hilarious breakdown of dating from the male perspective.
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The Wild Secrets We Keep From Our Partners and Spouses, Revealed by BuzzFeed

Mel and Suzie discuss the wild secrets we keep from our partners and spouses, diving into the lies—from big lies to little "white lies"—that creep into relationships. To add to the fun, they look at a BuzzFeed article filled with shocking, hilarious, and sometimes downright scandalous confessions from real people. From financial fibs to secret habits, they break down what people choose to hide and why.
Are some secrets harmless, or do they always come back to bite us? Mel and Suzie debate whether full honesty is really the best policy in relationships and share their own takes on trust, boundaries, and when it might be okay to keep something to yourself. Tune in for a revealing conversation that just might make you question what you don’t know about your partner.
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Why We Cheat: The Real Reasons Behind Infidelity, Secrets, and Lies

Why do people cheat? In this juicy episode of Sharing My Truth, we dive deep into the real reasons behind infidelity, uncovering the secrets, lies, and broken ties that lead to betrayal in modern relationships. From emotional disconnects to impulsive decisions, we’re unpacking what drives cheating and whether it’s ever justified. Temptation can often play a huge role, and trust is frequently broken when people step outside their committed relationships. Mel and Suzie explore the hidden truths of why people cheat, how it impacts relationships, and what it means for personal growth and forgiveness.
Want to know more about common cheating behaviors? Check out this insightful article on Stylist about the red flags and signs that often precede an affair: Common Cheating Behaviours & Affairs. Tune in for an eye-opening conversation on love, betrayal, and how to rebuild after trust is shattered.
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Wings, Wands, and Wicked Desires: The Rise of The Fairy Porn Obsession

What’s fluttering into the hearts (and bookshelves) of readers everywhere? Fairy porn. Yes, you read that right. This week, we’re diving into the wild world of "romantasy," a genre blending fantasy, romance, and just the right amount of spice. Inspired by the Daily Mail’s deep dive into this trend, we explore how TikTok’s #BookTok has propelled these steamy tales of winged lovers, magical realms, and forbidden desires to viral fame. Move over vampires and werewolves—fairies are having their moment.
We’ll unpack why readers are enchanted by these ethereal (and surprisingly racy) stories and discuss how social media is rewriting the rules of publishing. From taboo fairy trysts to the creative freedom of fantastical settings, this genre is as daring as it is imaginative. Whether you’re a fan of fantasy or just curious about what’s making fairies the hottest creatures around, this episode promises to entertain, enlighten, and maybe even inspire your next read.
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Dry January? Let’s Talk Going ’Sex Sober’ Instead!

It’s January, and while everyone’s busy ditching booze for Dry January, we’re shaking things up and asking: What about going sex sober? That’s right—putting the bedroom antics on pause for a month to focus on self-discovery, mindfulness, and maybe even detoxing from the chaos of modern dating and relationships. Could a "Sex-sober" month be just what we need to reset our minds and hearts for the year ahead?
Join Mel and Suzie as they dive into the highs, the lows, and the awkward in-betweens of taking a break from intimacy. Is it empowering? Torturous? Or just plain enlightening? We’re spilling the tea, sharing personal stories, and questioning whether stepping back could help us step forward in love and life. Tune in for a conversation that’s equal parts juicy, hilarious, and thought-provoking—because it’s not all about what you give up but what you gain.
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The Ultimate Breakup Guide: Do’s, Don’ts, and Savage Truths
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The Ultimate Breakup Guide: Do’s, Don’ts, and Savage Truths

Breaking up might be a fact of life, but that doesn’t mean it has to be a train wreck, but you have to be clear with your words and actions. In this episode, we’re spilling the tea on the ultimate breakup guide—covering everything from the graceful exits to the all-too-common blunders that can haunt you for years. Should you text or talk face-to-face? Is ghosting ever okay? And what’s the deal with the “we can still be friends” line? We’re tackling the do’s, don’ts, and cringe-worthy mishaps to help you navigate breakups like a pro.
But let’s be real—sometimes, breakups aren’t about grace; they’re about survival. That’s why we’re also dishing out the savage truths no one tells you, like when it’s okay to burn the bridge (figuratively, of course) and why your ex’s opinion doesn’t define your worth. With hilarious stories, raw honesty, and practical tips, this episode is your toolkit for saying goodbye without losing your sanity—or your self-respect. Whether you’re calling it quits or just taking notes for the future, this one’s a must-listen!
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Cougars, Toyboys, and Taboo: Older Women and Younger Men
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Why Do OnlyFans Stars Bonnie Blue and Lily Phillips Give Us the Ick?

This week, Mel and Suzie discuss and debate the viral sensation surrounding controversial OnlyFans stars Bonnie Blue and Lily Phillips. These women are making waves—and sparking debates—by publicly sharing their promotional and very questionable sex stunts such as sleeping with 100 men. But why does this grab so much attention? From feminists and the sex-positive community to those with very traditional views on sex and marriage, it seems that Bonnie and Lily's stories are giving everyone the ick! Mel and Suzie break down why their actions trouble us so much. Are we all being fair or just a little too sanctimonious?
As the conversation unfolds, Mel and Suzie tackle the big questions: Is this just a savvy promotional strategy, their body their choice, or is it just very seedy and gross? Have we gone way too far, and is this proving the crazy lengths these performers will go to to promote themselves? Will they regret it, and will it traumatize them? Is this message just very damaging or do we need to get a grip?
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Lavender Marriages: Is Platonic Love the Answer?

Could your soulmate be...just your best friend? Inspired by the viral Dazed Digital article, Mel and Suzie unpack the resurgence of interest in lavender marriages on TikTok. What exactly is a lavender marriage, and why are people romanticizing these partnerships in today’s world? Once a way for Hollywood stars to hide their true selves, these platonic unions are now being reimagined by younger generations craving deep, non-romantic partnerships.  From old Hollywood scandals to Gen Z’s fresh takes on love and intimacy, we’re exploring how these unions challenge conventional ideas of what relationships should look like. And here’s the real kicker: Is a sexual or romantic relationship doomed to fail anyway?
These unions are often formed between two people who are not romantically or sexually involved, usually as a way to conform to societal expectations or avoid scrutiny. While they were once used to conceal sexual orientations, today, the concept resonates with people seeking deep, non-romantic connections and partnerships. Can it work, and also what is the point?
Whether you’re here for the history, the drama, or just wondering if your BFF could be the one, this episode is spilling all the lavender-scented tea!
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The Secret To Longevity? How Sexual Health Boosts Wellness For Men And Women - With Dr.Jonathan Bastian

Is your sexual health the key to a longer, healthier life? Dr. Jonathan Bastian from Aeon Future Health joins Mel and Suzie to explore the vital role hormones play in men and women's sexual health, overall well-being, and longevity. From understanding testosterone and hormone optimization to tackling common challenges like low libido and performance issues, Dr. Bastian breaks down the science and solutions for aging well. Discover how prioritizing sexual health can unlock energy, confidence, and vitality for the long haul. 
Are hormones the real MVP when it comes to living longer? Dr. Bastian joins Mel and Suzie to unpack why balancing your hormones is a game-changer for longevity, energy, and—most importantly—sexual health. From common challenges in the bedroom to the science of aging gracefully, we’re focusing on what men and women need to know to feel good, perform well, and live better. Discover insights that will keep your mind, body, and libido thriving for the long haul! Whether you're dealing with hormonal imbalances, fatigue, or sexual health concerns, this conversation is packed with actionable insights and practical advice. Learn how modern science can help you feel better, perform better, and live a longer, healthier life.
Find Dr Bastian and Aeon Heath @aeonfuturehealth
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Cougars, Toyboys, and Taboo: Older Women and Younger Men

In this episode of Sharing My Truth, Mel and Suzie dive into the world of cougars and younger men. Mel spills the tea on knowing older women who proudly date younger boyfriends, while Suzie is left wondering if this is a real-life trend or just a Hollywood fantasy. From celebrity headlines to everyday love stories, they explore whether the cougar dynamic is more common than we think—or just a media-driven myth. Tune in as they unpack the stereotypes, the allure, and whether age really matters when it comes to love and attraction!
As the conversation unfolds, the duo questions why society often reacts differently to these pairings compared to older men dating younger women. Are we finally moving past outdated double standards, or is there still a stigma surrounding the “cougar” label? From mainstream media buzz to personal anecdotes, Mel and Suzie uncover the complexities of these relationships, questioning whether age is truly just a number—or something much more layered.
Tune in and let us know what you think.
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