Sharing My Truth

In this episode of Sharing My Truth, Mel and Suzie tackle one of the most controversial dating trends of the last few years. More and more men are looking beyond North America and Western Europe for love, claiming they can find more traditional values, stronger relationships, and better dating experiences abroad.
But does it actually work?
Mel and Suzie explore why some men are leaving the Western dating market, what women think about the Passport Bros movement, the realities of international dating, cultural differences, financial expectations, and whether moving across the world is really the answer to modern dating frustrations.
Is this a genuine solution for men struggling to find love, or are there challenges that nobody talks about?
If you've ever wondered why so many men are looking overseas for relationships, this episode is for you.
Join Mel and Suzie for an honest, balanced conversation about one of the most talked-about trends in dating today
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In this episode of Sharing My Truth, Mel and Suzie dive into one of the most controversial relationship statistics out there: women initiate nearly 70% of divorces. But if women are the ones leaving, why do so many people still blame men for the collapse of modern marriages?
Are men emotionally unavailable? Are women’s expectations unrealistic? Has social media, modern independence, and shifting gender roles changed marriage forever?
From emotional labor and communication breakdowns to resentment, attraction, loneliness, and the pressure modern couples face, this conversation gets brutally honest about why marriages are failing, who’s walking away, and whether either side is actually happy with the current state of relationships.
If you’ve ever wondered why so many couples seem disconnected, frustrated, or quietly miserable, this episode is for you.
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In this episode of Sharing My Truth, Mel and Suzie take on one of the biggest questions in modern dating: are women the problem? From impossible standards and dating apps to mixed signals, ghosting, unrealistic expectations, and the growing frustration from men, this conversation gets honest fast.
The hosts break down what women are getting wrong in dating, where men are struggling, and why modern relationships feel harder than ever. They also debate whether social media, feminism, hookup culture, and “having too many options” have changed how women approach men and relationships.
If you’ve ever wondered why dating feels broken, why so many people stay single, or why men and women seem more disconnected than ever, this episode is for you.
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Women asked men on Reddit one simple question: “How do I hit on you?” The answers were honest, unexpected, hilarious, and in some cases, brutally direct.
In this episode, Mel and Suzie react to real responses from men about how women should flirt, approach guys and show interest without coming across as awkward, desperate, or fake. From subtle signs to direct pickup lines, they break down what actually works on men, and what turns them off instantly.
Do men like confident women? Do guys want women to make the first move? What should you actually say to a guy you like? This episode dives into modern dating, flirting, attraction, rejection, confidence, and the reality of what men say they want from women today.
If you’ve ever thought:
“How do I hit on a guy?”
“Do men like being approached?”
“What do men actually want women to say?”
…this episode is for you.
Expect laughs, disagreements, dating advice, male-perspective insights, and the unfiltered truth about modern flirting and attraction.
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You meet in real life. There’s a vibe. She gives you her number.
So why does everything fall apart the moment you text her to set up a date?
In this episode, we break down a listener voice note from a man who keeps hitting the same frustrating pattern: great in-person connection, number exchanged, one follow-up text… and then silence.
This isn’t random, and it’s happening to more men than you think.
We get into:
Why women give their number but don’t follow through
The biggest mistake men make when texting after meeting
What your message might actually be communicating (without you realizing)
Timing, tone, and how quickly things can lose momentum
What to do differently so this stops happening again
Mel and Suzie don’t completely agree on this one, which makes it even more interesting. One leans into giving it more space, the other calls out where men are unintentionally killing attraction.
If you’ve ever thought, “I did everything right, so what happened?” then this episode is for you.
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“How do I know if my wife is cheating?”
That’s the question a listener sent in, and in this episode, we unpack it honestly, without jumping to conclusions.
Mel and Suzie don’t fully agree on this one, which makes it even more real. One leans into trusting your instincts; the other challenges how easy it is to misread normal relationship shifts as something more.
We talk through:
The signs people think mean cheating… and which ones actually matter
Changes in behaviour, communication, and emotional distance
When your gut is picking up on something… vs when you might be overthinking
What to do before you accuse, assume, or spiral
Mel also makes a point that hits hard: once you say the words out loud and accuse your partner, you can’t take that back. Even if you’re wrong, it changes everything.
This episode is less about catching someone out… and more about handling a situation that can easily go sideways if you get it wrong.
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You sent them in… and we’re reading them out.
In this episode, we go through real red flags and green flags our listeners have experienced in dating and relationships and give our honest take on each one. Some are obvious, some are questionable, and some might surprise you.
We react to:
Red flags people weren’t sure about, but probably should have been
Green flags that actually signal something real (and not just “nice on the surface”)
Situations that fall somewhere in the middle: Is it a warning sign or just human?
The patterns we keep seeing again and again from both men and women
Mel and Suzie don’t hold back, calling out what matters, what doesn’t, and where people tend to get it wrong.
If you’ve ever second-guessed a situation or wondered “is this a red flag or am I overthinking?”, this one’s for you.
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In this episode, we unpack a write-in from a man in his 30s who keeps dating women who, on paper, have everything, great careers, stability, intelligence, and their lives together. And yet, something isn’t clicking.
The dates feel polite. Predictable. Low energy.
So what’s going on?
Is it modern dating dynamics?
Are people playing it too safe?
Or is there a disconnect between what looks good on paper and what actually creates attraction?
We get into:
Why some dates feel flat, even when everything seems “right”
The difference between being accomplished and being engaging
Whether modern dating is making people more passive
How routine and playing it safe can kill chemistry
What both men and women might be missing early on
This isn’t about putting women down, it’s about exploring a pattern that more people are noticing but not always saying out loud.
If you’ve ever left a date thinking, “I should be into this… but I’m just not”, this conversation will feel very familiar.
🎧 Real conversations. Honest perspectives. No filters.
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More and more men are starting to feel like dating has become one-sided. You plan, you lead, you pay, you follow up, and still, it goes nowhere.
So what’s actually going on?
In this episode, we break down the real question: how much effort is too much? And do women even see it the same way?
We get into:
Why dating can feel one-sided for men right now
The effort men put in that often goes unnoticed
Whether women actually think about this
How over-investing can quietly work against you
What the right level of effort really looks like
This isn’t about blaming either side. It’s about understanding the gap that’s making modern dating frustrating for both men and women.
If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing everything right and still not getting the result you want, this one will hit.
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A male listener writes in with a question a lot of men quietly struggle with, how much should you prioritize a woman early on… especially before date two?
He’s busy, focused on work, and not interested in dropping everything for someone he barely knows. But he’s noticing something; things seem to fizzle if he doesn’t step up quickly. So what’s really going on?
Do women expect to come first right away, or is that just modern dating pressure? And where’s the line between showing interest and losing your own priorities?
Mel and Suzie break down:
Why early dating can fall apart before it even starts
The difference between effort and over-investing
Whether women actually expect to be prioritized, or just want consistency
How men can show interest without abandoning their own life
This episode gets into the real tension men feel, trying to build something with a woman while still holding onto their time, focus, and sense of self.
If you’ve ever wondered why things fade after a great first date or felt like dating is competing with your real life, this one will hit.
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