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The Truth About The Female Orgasm

The truth about the female orgasm. There is still so much mystery around the "big o". Why are we still so confused by it? Mel thinks its because it is more complicated that the male orgasm. What do you think? It is not finite, it does not work in the same way for every woman and every woman needs something different. Most importantly it does not always happen!
For some women "climax" is simple for others it is a lifetime of discovery. It is not a given that it will happen for you. Many women think it has happened but then the real thing happens and everything changes! At different points in your life one thing works and other times it changes. The reality though is that it is a big stress reliever and can have many health benefits including helping with menstrual pain and menopausal symptoms. Why do we still find it so hard to talk about? 
If we don't talk about it, it will remain a little shrouded in mystery and not understood. It is an all body experience and women should feel comfortable and happy to chat about it and ask questions.
Join Mel & Suzie this week for their as always hilarious and honest conversation. We are talking more about the female big "o", it is much more normalized, but we still have a long way to go!
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The Truth About Being Addicted To Excitement

What does it mean to be addicted to excitement? Mel and Suzie discuss what that means. Can you be addicted to excitement, the thrill of something? Or is it just simply that you are bored with your life? Are you escaping the mundane, the fear of, "is this it?!"
One of the Sharing My Truth Listeners shares their story of being married for 26 years and loving her husband but she is having an affair with another man and is addicted to the physical side. Mel and Suzie discuss what the listener should do. Should she carry on the affair, should she tell her husband? How do you admit to an affair? How common is it to have an affair? Is having an affair a choice or is it just a human mistake? Is the thrill, the excitement she is feeling from meeting up with this man selfish? These are questions that don't have simple answers. Life is not that easy!
There are no straight forward answers and the listener really has to think about what they want in life. Also who should they tell? Mel warns her to be careful who she speaks to. Find out what she means by that. Think about it all clearly and do not do anything rash, but lying is never a good answer for Mel. It can change your behaviour. 
Suzie is more matter of fact. If your husband does not make you happy then leave. But is it really that simple? When you have been married for 26 years your lives, family and emotions are intertwined. Life has its ups and downs and if you love someone you go the distance and don't give up at the first sign of boredom.
Listen to find out what Mel & Suzie say. Do you agree? What would you do?
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The Truth About Pregnancy And Birth

This is the whole truth and nothing but the truth about Mel's experience with her 2 pregnancies and births. What is the hardest part about pregnancy and birth? Pregnancy and birth are different for everyone. We talk about expectations versus reality, which differ considerably! What is it like to have a baby? Mel doesn't sugar coat the pain! Her description is terrifying but hilarious.There are some stories that seem funny now but not at the time! The bathtub almost going through her kitchen ceiling while having contractions with her first pregnancy being one!
Mel had her 2 girls in 2 different countries.The experience of pregnancy and birth was very different in the UK and Switzerland. Suzie asks Mel about the negative, the positive and how she knew what to do. The answer is there is no playbook for having children, you figure it out as you go along. Are there things you can figure out first? Is there a perfect age or time to have a baby? What if you don't want a baby?
Mel shares her truth, the good and the bad. She always wanted children but that does not mean that pregnancy or birth went according to plan. Her first birth was very traumatic, but she had a beautiful baby girl. Mel knows that some women want kids and some don't and she feels that you should not be pressured, you should be able to make that choice. Having a baby is "huge" chapter in your life and will change your life and although you are never really prepared you have to want it.
Suzie and Mel talk about post natal depression and how incredibly hard that is. There is so much guilt and we still don't talk about it enough. If you feel differently to the way you think you should or how society feels you should feel about being a mother, you judge yourself and others judge you!
Mel's children are the light or her life, having children has helped her heal from her own traumatic childhood. She still recognizes that it's hard and not for every woman.
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Help! Should I Start Scheduling Sex To Save My Relationship?

This episode is about whether you should schedule sex dates with your partner. Does scheduling sex work and can it save your relationship? Does it guarantee quality time, demonstrate commitment and improve communication? Life can get in the way, partners can have mismatched libidos. Scheduling may seem "too" practical for sex, but if you don't there is a danger you are not intimate together and there are many issues tied up with that.
Listen to Suzie and Mel's differing opinions. Mel is perhaps more pratical she has been married a long time. Suzie thinks scheduling sex is not very exciting or spontaneous. Should you put "love making sessions" in the diary?Is it too clinial or is there a half way house to make sure you make time for each other? What works best for a relationship? Mel thinks you can make things sexy and get in the mood, Suzie is not so convinced!
One of our amazing listeners has shared her story with Mel and Suzie, so they share their opinions and encourage you to share more. By talking together we may find an answer. Do Mel & Suzie come to a consensus? As always there is wit, humour, many laughs and few new "Britishisms" from Mel and perhaps a new perspective for the listeners.
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The Truth About Toy Boys

In this episode Mel and Suzie discuss the phenomenon of toy boys or is it boy toys? Is it a good idea to have an affair or a relationship with a much younger man? Listen to Mel's view point and why she thinks that. Has she changed her mind over the years? 
As always Suzie is open minded. Do what makes you feel good and makes you happy. If you are a woman over 40/50 and you are having a relationship with a younger man, you do you! Enjoy it. You are not hurting anyone or are you? You just want some good d**k!
But Mel does have some practical advice. She talks about her Mum who had a whole slew of toyboys when she was young. How did that shape how she feels? Has she revisted her opinion?
What do you think about toy boys and older women. Would you have a relationship with a much younger man? Is it just about sex or can it be more?
Tune in and find out what they think and why. What do you think?
 
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The Truth About My Toxic Mum

This episode is more serious and very personal. Mel tells us about her toxic mother, about the cruelty and verbal abuse she experienced. She tells us about her mother's mental illness, she is bipolar. How did she survive a narcissistic mother and how is she able to be a good mother herself to her own kids having had such a poor role model.
Just because someone is related to you, it does not give them the right to behave badly. Abuse is abuse it's never allowed. Toxic family relationships are very destructive on many levels. Listen here to Mel and Suzie's honest discussion and Mel sharing her truth and her childhood trauma.
 
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The Truth About Trust, Cheating, And Open Relationships

Mel and Suzie chat about the reality of cheating. They share their truth, experiences and hard lines. When the trust goes what happens? Can the relationship be saved? Are there levels of cheating and where is the line? Is an open relationship the answer? Many of us have an issue with cheating but do we know why. Find out why Mel will not tolerate cheating. She feels very strongly, find out why she feels that way, its not what you think!
Tune in and find out what Mel & Suzie think and how different their view points are and why?
This episode may give you a new perspective and help you determine where your hard and fast line is.
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The Truth About Sexting And Self-Esteem

This is Mel and Suzie's truth about their own sexting experiences and the good and bad consequences that can come from sending a sexy picture or being on a foot fetish site.
This is a hilarious conversation between "posh" British Mel and her inability to talk dirty and Suzie and her love for it. Who knows more about what all the emojis mean in the language of love!
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The Truth About Being A Bad Bitch

This episode is about Mel and Suzie's difference of opinions on the sexy or potentially harmful words we are using about ourselves. Are we slut shaming ourselves? Or are we allowing a new empowerment for a new sex-positive generation?
Mel is British a bit posh and words mean what they mean. For Suzie there is a subtlety, maybe we should own the bad words ad then we win.
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The Truth About Sex Toys

Mel and Suzie chat about the positive outcomes of owning a plethora of sex toys, and the rollercoaster ride and added connection that using a couples toy brings.
This episode may help you to figure out where to start, what to do next. It's an honest and very funny discussion between 2 women, a "millennial" and a "Gen X" about how to discover new pleasure points you didn't know you had!
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