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Red Flag Playbook: What Every Guy Should Know

Think she's perfect? Maybe. But before you fall headfirst, you might want to check the signs. In this episode, we’re breaking down the Red Flag Playbook, the top dating red flags every man should know before things get serious.
From love bombing and shady texting habits to the subtle signs she’s not emotionally available, we’re calling it out. Whether you're new to dating, returning to the game, or simply tired of making the same mistakes, this episode will equip you with the knowledge to identify potential problems at an early stage.
We’ll cover:
The difference between a quirk and a red flag
Manipulation tactics you should never ignore
When to walk away—and how to trust your gut
Don’t wait for a disaster to realize you missed the signs. Listen now and protect your time, your energy, and your heart.
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Modern Men Unhinged: Cheating, Rage, and the Rise of the Incel - A Talk With Jeff James - Part 2

In Part 2 of our fascinating conversation with Jeff James (@bythesaintjames), we’re diving deep into the uncomfortable truths about modern masculinity, cheating in relationships, and the disturbing rise of incel culture. Why are so many men angry, disconnected, and spiralling in today’s dating world? What’s really behind the cheating epidemic, and how does online toxicity fuel it all?
We explore how loneliness, rejection, and unrealistic expectations are impacting men's mental health and behaviour, as well as what it means for the women trying to date them. No topic is off-limits in this raw, honest, and sometimes controversial episode of Sharing My Truth.
 Topics Covered:
The psychology behind cheating and emotional detachment
How incel ideology is gaining traction online
The crisis of connection in modern dating
Why some men feel like the victims—and what that really says
Dating advice for women navigating this mess
If you’ve ever asked, “WTF is going on with men ”today?”, this episode has some answers.
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Modern Men, Dating Woes & WTF Is Going On — A Raw Talk with Jeff James Part 1

Why are so many men abandoning dating altogether? In this episode, we sit down with licensed therapist Jeff James (from the state of PA, USA) to unpack what’s going on inside the modern male mind. From dating apps that feel more like job interviews to the pressure of being “emotionally evolved but still manly,” we get into why men are tapping out, tuning out, and staying single.
Jeff gives us the male perspective with honesty, his professional perspective, and zero sugarcoating. Whether you’re a woman wondering why your Hinge inbox is tumbleweeds, or a guy feeling lost in the emotional jungle of dating expectations—this one’s for you. It's raw, real, from the male perspective, and a perspective you may never have heard before!
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You Say You Want to Date… So Why Do You Look So Unapproachable?

You say you want to meet someone, but are you actually giving off “come talk to me” energy? In this episode, Mel and Suzie get into the mixed signals so many of us send without even realizing it. From crossed arms and dead-eye stares to hiding behind your phone, wearing headphones, and a constant scowl, we break down the little habits that might be making you look closed off, even if you're totally open to connection. It's not about blaming you—it’s about helping you notice the signals you’re giving off that could be sabotaging your dating life.
We also talk about what “looking approachable” really means in 2025. Whether you’re out at a bar, walking through the grocery store, or just existing in public, your body language and vibe matter. And if you’re ready for something real, it might be time to match your energy with your intentions.
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A Mother Snooped And Uncovered The Sexy Secret Her College Daughter Never Meant To Share

When this mom offered to help her daughter pack up her college apartment, she didn’t expect to stumble across... a dildo. Cue the gasp, the judgment, and the very awkward silence. In this episode, Mel and Suzie talk about why finding a sex toy shouldn’t be treated like discovering a crime scene—and why some parents still freak out over their children becoming adults.
Mel’s take? It’s not a big deal. So why do some moms act like their daughters’ sexuality is a moral emergency? Let’s talk about shame, double standards, and how to stop making sex such a taboo topic at home.
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Short King Energy vs. Hot and Tall Privilege: Why Height Still Messes With Dating

In this episode, Mel and Suzie ask the question no dating app will: does height really matter, or are we just conditioned to think it does? From the rise of the “short king” to the timeless appeal of “hot and tall,” we’re unpacking how height shows up in modern dating and how much of it is personal preference vs. social pressure. 
We share real stories, some hard truths, and a few unpopular opinions. Is it fair that short guys have to bring a six-figure salary and a killer personality just to compete with a hot and tall guy who’s average in every other way? Are women actually open to the dating shorter men?If you've ever filtereted by height on the dating apps or felt judged by it, this one's for you!
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I Slept with My Sister’s Husband - Do I Spill or Stay Silent?

This week, we're diving headfirst into the messiest kind of drama: family. What happens when your sister’s relationship is technically open… but you end up hooking up with her husband? Is it betrayal, bad judgment, or just really confusing boundaries? Mel and Suzie break down this jaw-dropping confession, talk through the ethics of open relationships, and ask the big question: when is honesty the right move and when is it just selfish guilt in disguise? Buckle up, this one’s messy.
In this episode, we unpack a wild confession that has us both cringing and clutching our wine glasses: a sister slept with her sister’s husband... and now she doesn’t know whether to confess or keep it zipped. We talk sibling loyalty, messy boundaries, and why "open" doesn’t always mean “anything goes.” It's uncomfortable, a little scandalous, and 100% the kind of tea we live for.
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The Shocking Secret My Wife Hid From Me (It Involves BDSM)!

He thought he knew everything about his wife—until one drunken night changed everything. In this episode, Mel and Suzie dig into a jaw-dropping listener story: a husband finds out his seemingly vanilla wife used to be a full-blown dom in college. We’re talking leather, power, total control. And she casually dropped that bomb years into their marriage—over drinks, no less.
We unpack what this kind of revelation does to trust, intimacy, and your entire sense of who your partner really is. Why do people keep major parts of themselves hidden in relationships? Is it ever “too late” to tell the truth? And how the hell do you rebuild trust when your foundation suddenly feels like fiction? It’s juicy, it’s messy, and it’s real. Got your own wild relationship secret? DM us or send it anonymously—we might just talk about it on the show.
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Truth Bomb: I Tried To Surprise My Wife...And She Called Me An Ahole!

This week is another episode from our Truth Bomb series. After giving birth to twins, she was struggling with her body image—despite her husband constantly reassuring her that she was beautiful. But self-doubt can run deeper than compliments, and she just couldn’t shake the feeling. Wanting to help her feel confident again, her husband secretly worked overtime, saved up, and surprised her with what he thought was the ultimate gesture of love: cosmetic surgery. Cue the explosion.
Instead of feeling seen or supported, she was devastated—and now she won’t speak to him. He’s confused, she’s furious, and this episode dives into the emotional landmine that is body image, post-baby identity, and the fine line between love and insult. Can a “perfect gift” be totally wrong? We’re unpacking the hard truths behind intention, perception, and how to actually support your partner when they’re not feeling like themselves.
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My Ex Called Me Vanilla!

Vanilla sex: the missionary-positioned elephant in the room. It’s been unfairly dragged through the mud like it’s the tofu of sex, bland, basic, and totally forgettable. But what if we told you vanilla sex is actually the comfort food of the bedroom? Yeah, we said it.This week, Mel and Suzie are peeling back the (silk) sheets and getting real about why vanilla sex doesn’t deserve the bad PR. There is a line between vanilla and the Kinky norm being portrayed in the Media. What do people actually do, probably somewhere in the middle? All that being said, it's up to them. What works for you, works for you. We’re talking intimacy, connection, and yes, actually enjoying sex without needing a trapeze and a safe word. We’ve got stories, rants, and insights. So whether you're vanilla and proud, kink-curious, or just confused AF, this episode will make you laugh, cringe, and maybe reevaluate your next horizontal adventure. vibr8tor.com: Use Promo MS15 guybrator.com: UsePromo GUY15Got a story to share with us?Leave us a voicemail by clicking here.Email us: stories@sharingmytruth.com or DM us on InstagramFollow us on Instagram @sharingmytruthpod, TikTok @sharingmytruthpodFacebook @sharingmytruthpod , YouTube @sharingmytruthpodFollow Mel @melanyklondon and Suzie @suzsheckterSign up to our weekly newsletter and join the Sharing My Truth Community sharingmytruth.comVisit our website sharingmytruth.com and share your truths with us, check out our latest merch, promo codes from our partners, and much moreTune in, share your truth, and let’s talk about it